Accept yourself as you are – create yourself as you desire.
It’s time to put together something exciting for summer. Here’s a great place to start.
FD
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| Check it out on Amazon. | Find that perfect outfit. |
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| Lightweight, cheap and fun. Crocs make some funky wedges. Remember to add 2 sizes to get a women’s shoe to fit a male foot! | |
| Mesh panties are fun and comfortable to exercise in. Just don’t wear them to the pool and go into the male changing rooms. | |
| Find the perfect summer dress here. | |
| You just can’t beat corset tops for a fresh summer look. |
Most crossdressers enjoy their activities in a somewhat private way. Unlike ādrag queensā they feel a sense of privacy adds to their enjoyment, and definitely donāt wish to step outside of their comfort zone unless there is a well established confidence already built.
While this isnāt the case for everyone, itās certainly the case for many of my members. I was saying to Sebastian just this Wednesday, as he was helping me adjust my yoga position, I feel an intimate connection with every one of my members. I feel that I understand their struggle and their joy. And itās a path thatās sadly not understood by many. Even as Sebastian helped me into an inversion, I said that the connection is one that is deep and very personal.
With that in mind, I thought Iād talk this week about wearing some clothes somewhat less associated with crossdressing. I think we all agree that lovely soft evening gowns are very beautiful. For the average woman, thereās a desire to wear them out and be seen. Ironically, because crossdressers tend not to want to go outside in such a public exposure (at least in the early part of their journey), this is an activity that is denied us by society.
| That however does not mean that you canāt enjoy these wonderful garments. Especially these days, the cost is not prohibitive. Thereās nothing in the world wrong with being āoverdressedā in the privacy of your own home. Remember, itās not so long ago that many people ādressed for dinnerā.
With this inĀ mind, this week Iām featuring these lovely gowns. You can buy these and wear them in the privacy of your own home, enjoy their delightful flow and movement, and perhaps wear them in publicĀ – when you are ready. Enjoy them, and remember you can buy them at very reasonable rates online. |
In the meantime, sometimes you have to learn to be invisible.
Many of my members buy their clothing online and love to use Amazon.Ā I’ve got a few selections below based on what my members have been buying this week.Ā Feel free to review any of the products you buy here. I always love to hear from my members. FD
| Some of my favorite sleepwear items are the simplest. Here’s a small selection of items my members have been buying recently, and enjoying. | |
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| You can’t beat the feel of silky material against the skin. What better way to ensure a wonderful night’s sleep! | |
| Try some of these lovely silky pyjamas and see how wonderful you feel in the morning! All fresh and ready to go out and pretend to be almost normal, like all the people who’d love to be enjoying themselves as much as you and I.
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I thought I’d touch on something many people ask about.Ā So many of us confine our dressing to lingerie and club wear, and yet we yearn to embrace the feminine within us. This is a little like the person learning to drive practicing in a Formula 1 racing car.
There are many opportunities to enjoy a feminine presentation by adopting a somewhat androgynous look in our day to day life, or even in the workplace. So, today we’re looking at how we can bring aspects of dressing into the work place in subtle ways.
Now, if you wear a uniform at work, this may be a bit of a stretch. The same may be true if you’re working in an iron foundry. However, I’d love to see you get creative and even send in a photo or two of how you bring this one off. Remember, it’s as much about how you feel, as how you look.
Let me give you an example. IfĀ you work in an environment in which jeans is ok, try wearing a more feminine cut of jeans. Use a loose sweater with them, and you can still find yourself acceptably dressed for many workplaces.Ā If you were to loop a nice slim belt around your waistline, you’d have moved firmly into the realm of crossdressing – which is likely to be too much for your workplace. So, it’s a matter of finding the threshold and moving a little closer to it, to satisfy that part of you which desires to feel feminine.
If you can find an outfit that works for you, in the knowledge that if you added a wig and heels you’d look 
feminine, then you know you’re moving in the right direction. Personally, I love to wear a kilt now and then.Ā This is a great way to push the boundaries even further.Ā I understand that this is not going to work for everyone, however, it’s a fun way to push that threshold.
If you are using a little eye make up and a little blush now and then, this will take you even closer to that threshold. Be careful, you may not want to ‘out yourself’ by accident.
Be sure to send me a pic or two if you find you’re able to pull it off. Let me know if I can use them on the website.
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Fiona
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Q: How do you wear a kilt?
A: Like you mean it!
A man in a kilt is a man and a half… Except when he’s a chick.Ā Anyway, I thought I’d introduce this idea to you for 2018. Many people feel a little shy about dressing for the first time in public.Ā This is understandable. Putting on a kilt is a great way to ease yourself into it.
“After the first day of wearing a kilt in the office, people hardly noticed it and certainly didn’t comment on it. I now wear a kilt once a week, and if someone comments on it people are more inclined to think they’re a little odd, thanĀ the thought that I am!”-Ā Ā Rob
If you’re going to do this, you need to do it right. That means wearing suitable long black socks, a pair of black shoes (Vans do a great black canvas shoe that works well), and a plain sweater. One of my favorite ranges of kilts is provided by Sportkilt. They’ve done a great job popularizing the look. If you buy from them, be sure to let them know Fiona Dobson sent you.
All you need to do to change it up is throw on a pair of fishnets, and some eye shadow and you’re in full crossdress mode!
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| The Black Watch tartan is a proud military tartan, that is not confined to any particular ‘clan’. It is both conservative and stylish. | |
| The Wallace Tartan is a bright and flamboyant look, suitable for the younger rebelious type. Worn with a black sweater or a white shirt it can still appear smart, while retaining the bright impact of it’s youthful nature. | ; |
| The Utility Kilt is acceptable in many workplaces and is as masculine as you wish it to be. It’s a great look if you’ve never tried it and are not confident enough to step into a more fashionable style of kilt. |
Here’s the perfect pair of shoes to go with a kilt, from Vans:
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It goes without saying that everybody out to have a maid, but when one of my friends recently mentioned the matter of a PVC maids costume, I felt compelled to put this on the site. Enjoy! FD
There’s a fresh edge to the weather here in Montreal, and I got up this morning and got dressed all toasty, and went out to visit my friends after plunging my hands in my nice furry muff. Itās so nice to just slide my hand right in there.
And of course, this time of year is wonderful for those of us who love to experiment with wool and knitwear. The feeling of wool against the skin is so sensual, of course. So soft and yielding. Iāve got a friend in Wales who was saying much the same thing recently. At least, I think thatās what he meant. Sometimes itās so hard to tell.
So today I have three things for you to think about adding to your wardrobe.
The first is a high waisted ‘midi’ skirt. This one is a cotton blend, but you can see it’s lovely and warm and also simply a comfortable fit. Just right for a look of elegance but that’s also very practical.
The second, continuing the knitted theme is this great sweater dress. The wonderful thing about a sweater dress like this is the way it can emphasise your shape. Of course, it’s look wonderful with it’s full collar, but additionally it’s delightful with the right nylons and warm as toast.
And finally I have this delightful knitted long sleeve wrap dress, that’s both warm and comfortable and adds a quiet sense of conservatism, while maintaining a feminine look.
Iām emailing you having just returned from the heart unit, where I am happy to relate thatĀ BernardĀ is in the process of recovery from his rather unfortunate incident with a carrot.Ā This is much to the relief ofĀ Max, who for a moment thought he may have blood (or rather carrot juice) on his hands after shooting Bernard with the aid of Sebastianās motorcycle. If this is all a bit confusing you may be able toĀ catch up here.
I arrived home to findĀ SylvesterĀ sitting at my kitchen table looking more confused than a Trump supporter who had recently learned that heād won a months free food at Hooters, only to discover that he had to complete a skill testing question asking him to calculate the area of a square measuring 2 inches by 2 inches, before being eligible to collect his prize. I asked Sylvester what could possibly be wrong.
āItās this business with North Korea. My dad was out there years ago, and that didnāt go so well,ā said Sylvester.
Now, in case youāve been living under a rock ā which might be the safest place to be under the circumstances ā then you might be unaware that people are talking about the possibility of nuclear war. At times like this one is forced to ask the big questions. āWhatās it all for?ā, and āIsnāt there hope for humanity?ā, and āWhat does one really wear for Armageddon?ā.
As I looked down at my troubled friend, I was forced to conclude that one should always look on the bright side, and dress up for the occasion. Seeing Sylvesterās legs, also brought something else to mind, and consider that this is a man who looks like a gorilla and a fridge got together and created a baby.
I am of course talking about the need to deal with body hair when one crossdresses. The need to look oneās best supersedes all other considerations as the nuclear clock ticks toward midnight. Sylvesterās legs are very hairy, and if one is to meet oneās end looking fabulous either waxing it off, or at least disguising the body hair is a great place to start.
Not all of my members are able to shave their legs. For those who discretely dress without the knowledge of their partners, suddenly appearing without leg hair may be something of a give away. One member did successfully claim that their new swimming regime required them to remove as much body hair as possible, but this isnāt going to fly for some members.
In the quest to disguise body hair the fishnet pantyhose are your friends. Better still, try a fishnet body stocking. No one should be without one, in my opinion. If youāre unable to find one locally, you can followĀ this linkĀ andĀ order one on my website.
So, the question remains, faced with the unpleasant eventuality of nuclear annihilation, what would your outfit be? Personally, I think nice summer dress and some heels, pretty pink bra and panties. Feel free to let me know.
Now donāt forget, you can now join My Little Black Book for just $2.95 a month by using this link –Ā https://gumroad.com/l/mMgcZ.Ā Be sure to let me know once youāve paid and Iāll get you set up.
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Fiona
Fiona’s Shopping List
Here’s a short list of things you are going to use during my program, or generally, as a CD. These are not necessary from day 1, but as you go forward you are likely to pick up bits and pieces on this list.
They are explained more deeply in the Premium Program, but you’ll likely figure out why you need them as you go. Got any ideas of things to add to this list? Please add them in the comments below.
The idea is not for you to rush out and buy all these things at once. It’s more a case of pick them up if you see them on sale, or get the opportunity to acquire them now and then.
This might also be considered a ‘starter’ list. For many of us, the acquisition and creation of a look and a wardrobe is a big part of the fun of crossdressing. Enjoy putting these things together!
Make up
Foundation
Concealer
Matte Blush
Eyeliner pencil
Mascara
Matte eye-shadow without shimmer (harder colors come later)
Brow pencil
Lipstick
Lip gloss
Lip liner
Make up remover and wipes
Clothes
Panties
Stockings
Fishnets
Garter belt
Bra
Corset
Sports bra
Leggings ā Colorful
Heels
Body stocking
Body shapers (waist cincher, spanx shapewear etc)
Teddy or camisole
Pastel Tee Shirts
Mini skirt
Mini Dress
Summer sun dress
Accessories
Sunglasses
Wig
Eye lashes (self adhesive)
Bangles
Necklaces
Ear rings (clip on)
Belt
Rings
Nail polish
Nail polish remover
Other products
Moisturizer and skin care
Cleansers
Cosmetic bag
Suitcase
Make up bag
Body scent and fragrances
Body lotion
Be sure to add to this list in the comments below.
