Visiting my kitchen the other day was the beautiful Nikki Buxton. I will let her images speak for themselves.
I had just come in from running around in the local park, where Sylvester and his German Shepherd had been playing with his balls. I do enjoy the exercise, but when Nikki wandered in I was already quite out of breath.
The arrival of Nikki leaves everyone breathless. She is an absolute joy.
Nikki tells me she started dressing when she was about 9. Her mother had a great sense of style, and so when Nikki found some of her nylons, and a little black dress she tried them on. The experience was wonderful and her path was set.
Like many of us, Nikki’s family didn’t know anything about her delight in dressing, and she now enjoys a relationship with a kind and understanding girlfriend who helps her with her dressing. Her girlfriend is accepting of her gender choices, and is supportive.
Nikki is very non-judgemental. She accepts others as they are and knows that while others may not be completely understanding, they have their own journey too. Her attitude is quite delightful and easy going.
I asked Nikki how she came to terms with herself crossdressing?
She replied, “I never had a hard time accepting who I am, I just thought ‘if I enjoy it so much why give myself a hard time about it – I should just get on with it.”
“As long as I’m good with it, I don’t really need anyone else to accept it. That’s why I don’t really want to involve others as it’s my thing.”
As we enjoyed a Kenyan free trade coffee, I asked her what advice she might have for others exploring their desire to dress.
“Just go for it,” she replied. “Book a hotel room if you’re worried about being caught and just enjoy it to the full, it will feel like a weight has been lifted.”
What wise words! I’m hoping Nikki joins me again soon, as I just know Sebastian would like to get her in a yoga class – just the three of us!
I asked her what she might do, should she find herself trapped in an elevator
with Donald Trump, as one naturally does in an interview like this.
Nikki turned a shade of green and commented that that wasn’t going to happen. ‘Mr. Trump’s not welcome over here.”
Nikki is a delight. She has a wishlist on Amazon. If you’d like to show your appreciation for her hard work dressing, her delightful attitude and for presenting herself so wonderfully, visit her wishlist and send her something nice. You can do so here.
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