Accept yourself as you are – create yourself as you desire.
It’s time to put together something exciting for summer. Here’s a great place to start.
FD
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| Check it out on Amazon. | Find that perfect outfit. |
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| Lightweight, cheap and fun. Crocs make some funky wedges. Remember to add 2 sizes to get a women’s shoe to fit a male foot! | |
| Mesh panties are fun and comfortable to exercise in. Just don’t wear them to the pool and go into the male changing rooms. | |
| Find the perfect summer dress here. | |
| You just can’t beat corset tops for a fresh summer look. |
An English Country Garden is a powerful real life story about how crossdressing has impacted the life of Julius Braddock, a former press photographer from South Africa. It is a serious study of crossdressing, and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
At times frightening and poignant, the story explores the extremes of human emotions and looks at how crossdressing helps, and how one particular person can change the experience of crossdressing radically. Looking at stages familiar to most people who crossdress, this narrative provides a touching and helpful insight to allowing feminine aspect of oneself to develop.
The narrative is delivered in four sections, and readers are encouraged to comment and share thoughts about each part, to provide their own insights and experience to others on this journey.
An English Country Garden is free but I do ask you to use the comments as you work through the four parts. It helps others. FD
You can continue to Part 1 by using the link below.
Clothes Maketh The Man is an iconic serial about crossdressing that’s been running since 2016. New episodes are added monthly, as we follow the hapless adventures of Andy – or Andrea – as he progresses in a tortured path fuelled by curiosity, passion and excitement.
Have you ever felt that perhaps you’ve placed your trust in the wrong person? Well, welcome to Andy’s world. He progresses from seemingly innocent situation to catastrophe with a regularity that will entertain you, and hopefully you’ll never experience. Imagine the moment when a trusted friend says ‘Trust me!‘ – and suddenly you realize things are going to go very, very badly.
You can always find the latest version of Clothes Maketh The Man by using the search box on the home page of http://FionaDobson.com – or just by using this link. Search For Clothes Maketh The Man.
If you’re enjoying the story, be sure to comment on the pages!
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Fiona
– http://FionaDobson.com
We surveyed 2389 of our crossdresser members to see how they defined themselves. Here are the results.
Do you consider yourself heterosexual, bisexual or gay?
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We’re not always going to have the time to get completely dressed. Here’s a great way to quickly enjoy the feminine side of yourself.
This self hypnosis recording will help you feel comfortable using a little lipstick to emphasize the sensual nature of your personality. Be sure you have some lipstick with you when you do this wonderful exercise.
When you join my Premium Program for crossdressers, one of the first things we do is assign a name for you, if you haven’t already chosen one. In this simple self hypnosis file we’ve created a powerful tool to help you accept your new name, and learn to identify with it.
Enjoy this relaxing exercise and let me know how you get along with it.
Relax and let your mind accept yourself as you truly are. This simple self hypnosis exercise is going to help you feel wonderful about dressing.
Feeling a little guilty about crossdressing? Don’t worry, it’s perfectly natural to feel conflicted feelings about crossdressing. On the one hand you love to do it, at the same time you feel upset about it. This hypnosis file will help you feel more relaxed about it.
Most crossdressers enjoy their activities in a somewhat private way. Unlike ‘drag queens’ they feel a sense of privacy adds to their enjoyment, and definitely don’t wish to step outside of their comfort zone unless there is a well established confidence already built.
While this isn’t the case for everyone, it’s certainly the case for many of my members. I was saying to Sebastian just this Wednesday, as he was helping me adjust my yoga position, I feel an intimate connection with every one of my members. I feel that I understand their struggle and their joy. And it’s a path that’s sadly not understood by many. Even as Sebastian helped me into an inversion, I said that the connection is one that is deep and very personal.
With that in mind, I thought I’d talk this week about wearing some clothes somewhat less associated with crossdressing. I think we all agree that lovely soft evening gowns are very beautiful. For the average woman, there’s a desire to wear them out and be seen. Ironically, because crossdressers tend not to want to go outside in such a public exposure (at least in the early part of their journey), this is an activity that is denied us by society.
| That however does not mean that you can’t enjoy these wonderful garments. Especially these days, the cost is not prohibitive. There’s nothing in the world wrong with being ‘overdressed’ in the privacy of your own home. Remember, it’s not so long ago that many people ‘dressed for dinner’.
With this in mind, this week I’m featuring these lovely gowns. You can buy these and wear them in the privacy of your own home, enjoy their delightful flow and movement, and perhaps wear them in public – when you are ready. Enjoy them, and remember you can buy them at very reasonable rates online. |
In the meantime, sometimes you have to learn to be invisible.
Many of my members buy their clothing online and love to use Amazon. I’ve got a few selections below based on what my members have been buying this week. Feel free to review any of the products you buy here. I always love to hear from my members. FD
| Some of my favorite sleepwear items are the simplest. Here’s a small selection of items my members have been buying recently, and enjoying. | |
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| You can’t beat the feel of silky material against the skin. What better way to ensure a wonderful night’s sleep! | |
| Try some of these lovely silky pyjamas and see how wonderful you feel in the morning! All fresh and ready to go out and pretend to be almost normal, like all the people who’d love to be enjoying themselves as much as you and I.
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Can you guess the average age of my Crossdressing Members? #crossdressing #crossdressers #crossdresserclub
— Fiona Dobson (@FionaDobson_CD) February 3, 2018
I will post the answer at the end of the survey in 7 days. Feel free to comment. You might be surprised.
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FD
UPDATE – Our average member age is 47.
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Visiting my kitchen the other day was the beautiful Nikki Buxton. I will let her images speak for themselves.
I had just come in from running around in the local park, where Sylvester and his German Shepherd had been playing with his balls. I do enjoy the exercise, but when Nikki wandered in I was already quite out of breath.
The arrival of Nikki leaves everyone breathless. She is an absolute joy.
Nikki tells me she started dressing when she was about 9. Her mother had a great sense of style, and so when Nikki found some of her nylons, and a little black dress she tried them on. The experience was wonderful and her path was set.
Like many of us, Nikki’s family didn’t know anything about her delight in dressing, and she now enjoys a relationship with a kind and understanding girlfriend who helps her with her dressing. Her girlfriend is accepting of her gender choices, and is supportive.
Nikki is very non-judgemental. She accepts others as they are and knows that while others may not be completely understanding, they have their own journey too. Her attitude is quite delightful and easy going.
I asked Nikki how she came to terms with herself crossdressing?
She replied, “I never had a hard time accepting who I am, I just thought ‘if I enjoy it so much why give myself a hard time about it – I should just get on with it.”
“As long as I’m good with it, I don’t really need anyone else to accept it. That’s
why I don’t really want to involve others as it’s my thing.”
As we enjoyed a Kenyan free trade coffee, I asked her what advice she might have for others exploring their desire to dress.
“Just go for it,” she replied. “Book a hotel room if you’re worried about being caught and just enjoy it to the full, it will feel like a weight has been lifted.”
What wise words! I’m hoping Nikki joins me again soon, as I just know Sebastian would like to get her in a yoga class – just the three of us!
I asked her what she might do, should she find herself trapped in an elevator
with Donald Trump, as one naturally does in an interview like this.
Nikki turned a shade of green and commented that that wasn’t going to happen. ‘Mr. Trump’s not welcome over here.”
Nikki is a delight. She has a wishlist on Amazon. If you’d like to show your appreciation for her hard work dressing, her delightful attitude and for presenting herself so wonderfully, visit her wishlist and send her something nice. You can do so here.
Feel free to leave a comment for Nikki below.
I’m delighted to say that I’ve released Part 18 of Clothes Maketh The Man. You will need to be logged in to read it, but for those of you enjoying the ongoing story of the hapless Andrea, you can find it here. A taster is below.
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Now, let me remind you precisely where we are. I found myself in my walk in closet, crouching down, in five inch heels. You can’t imagine how that hurts after just a few moments. Just feet from where I was, on the other side of the closet door, was Mandy (my girlfriend), who had arrived at my place and let herself in unexpectedly.
Through the louvres of the closet door I watched and my blood ran cold as I realised she was dialling my number. There by my feet were the trousers with my cell phone in the pocket.
In that moment time seemed to stand still, hanging in the air, like an unplayed note in a musical score. I held my breath
Mandy had returned from her overseas trip and I’d forgotten the date. It had crept up so suddenly and now she was back, standing in my bedroom, looking at a pale pink tee shirt and leggings that were strewn about my bedroom…
