Remembering that this is all about timing, weâre going to move a conversation into the area of fantasies. This should not seem forced, so pick you time carefully. Donât just say âThe weatherâs nice for the time of year, and by the way, what do you fantasise about?â
Wait for your moment. Approach the subject with sensitivity, and be gentle. Tell her you would love to know what she fantasises about, because you want to make her happier and to serve her sexually as well as you can.
In surveys about what women fantasize about, as many as 30% of women fantasize about being the man during sex. The number is much higher when the question was âhave you ever fantasized about being with a woman sexuallyâ.
The number of women who fantasize about a dominant role, forcing a man to do things to either pleasure her, or humiliate him are higher still.
When you start talking about fantasies itâs not to a great stretch to steer the conversation toward, âhave you ever fantasized about being a man?â Youâll be surprised how many women have. They may not admit it, but the fact remains, this is an intriguing possibility for many women.
So, as you talk about fantasies, draw out your partner and eventually youâre going to use the phrase, âI think itâs probably easier for me to pass as a woman than for you to pass as a man.â
Just let that hang out there for a moment. See what she says, but hereâs where you really pull the triggerâŠ
âI bet you canât pass as a man for 30 minutes.â Weâre looking for a scenario such as a restaurant, or shopping, or in a cafĂ©, or even at the cinema. So, you lay down the challenge.
Hereâs where the fun starts. In about eight out of ten cases sheâs going to say, âIf I do that, you have to dress as a woman and try to pass for the same amount of time.â
âYou havenât got a chance⊠But if you win, Iâll give it a try.â
Now this, or some close variation of it, starts to be fun. It could be that you suggest the bet is that she get dressed up and you do a photo of her as a man, and if she does it â well, you have to as well. Anyway, you see the general idea. One way or another, sheâs likely to be asking you to dress up.
The great thing about this method is that it can be so exciting, that you end the bet in bed. As long as you tell her how wonderful and exciting it all was, the chances are youâre going to be doing this regularly.
So, that is how you get her to ask you to crossdress. I always love to hear how you get on with these little exercises, so be sure to leave some comments in the section below. And donât forget, weâve always got new material coming out for you on Http://FionaDobson.com
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Totally love, love the technique & patience aspect. Letting her “show” you or
“Do it to” you, not only shows your interest, but you learned something quickly, that probably takes women years to master. Plucking eyebrows……I mean c’mon!!!!! Sounds easy, until the tweaser are in hand stand in front of a mirror. Buying cosmetics……..then saying it’s “ours”, idk about. From my experience, ladies are super picky & detailed when it comes to “their” makeup.
Thank you…..for the 4 part advice or technique post, Very informative & helpful mindsets from the women point if view. Keep up the amazing stuff, I look forward to each & every update day!!!!!
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Jessica Nicole
Yes, thanks much for the technique! I’m doubting that it’ll work, but willing to give it a try.