In this discussion with Lenni and Jules from Http://FIonaDobson.com we look at how we set goals as people in the gender fluid and queer space. In this Jules refers to a Gender Rebels podcast about ‘Lost Girlhood’. You can find that here – https://t.co/WoafGjoTod.
The Pastor Comes To Tea – Mistress Meg.
I looked at the young pastor and offered him another cup of tea. He sat in my room with a look of hopeful expectation.
âI would love to contribute to your fund, and I must say that, in principle I am of course an avid supporter of anything that helps disadvantaged inner youth,â and with that I paused and leaned a little closer, my cleavage spilling into his eyeline.
I continued, âBut, I wonder, Pastor. What can you do for me?â
The young man looked a little surprised, then replied, âNaturally, Iâd like to help my benefactor in any way I can.â I couldnât help noticing the struggle he was having averting his eyes from my breasts.
I smiled at him, placed my hand on his knee, at which he nearly jumped out of his skin, and then I said, âDonât worry, Iâm sure there will come a day when you can do some sort of service for me.â
âY,yes⊠Of course. Iâll be happy toâŠâ
âGood! And that day is today!â I replied quickly.
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Having âthe talkâ â âDarling, I think Iâm trans!â
Many of us worry that sharing the changes weâre going through will destroy our relationships, particularly if weâve been partnered for many years. There are certainly situations where this is the case, however it doesnât always need to be that way. If youâre interested in preserving your relationship you may want to read on.
Partners generally can be very accepting as long as they donât feel their relationship or security is threatened. So, for example, if you choose to share that you are experiencing some shifts emotionally, youâre likely to get a lot further than simply declaring that you want to be known henceforth as âCandyâ and that youâre going to wear stripper clothes to your job at the iron foundry. I think you understand what I am driving at. Communication is the key, and itâs communication at a very gentle level. No one wants to hear an ultimatum, or that âeverything has to changeâ.
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How to talk to your partner about crossdressing. Part 2
In our last session we got you to think about presenting the idea of how youâd like to look so much better, and you mentioned you are aware how some people look so much more groomed. You complimented your partner on their looks and their skills making themselves look so manicured and refined.
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I know what I believe, no need to wear that on my sleeve…
I was doing yoga in my garden just this morning with Sebastian, when he raised something thatâs been on my mind a while.
âFiona,â he said, while adjusting my position in a deep hip opening yoga position, âI have always like that on your blog you are unafraid to deal with the deep and penetrating issues.â
I felt him leaning into my posture, pressing me slightly deeper into the position.
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How to talk to your partner about crossdressing. Part 5
Remembering that this is all about timing, weâre going to move a conversation into the area of fantasies. This should not seem forced, so pick you time carefully. Donât just say âThe weatherâs nice for the time of year, and by the way, what do you fantasise about?â
Wait for your moment. Approach the subject with sensitivity, and be gentle. Tell her you would love to know what she fantasises about, because you want to make her happier and to serve her sexually as well as you can.
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How to talk to your partner about crossdressing. Part 4
At this stage youâre beginning to move your partner toward acting in a specific manner with you. Sheâs been primed, sees herself as a liberal thinking and open to intimate suggestions (after all, everybody sees her that way), and she sees herself as being in control in a liberated and powerful way.
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How to talk to your partner about crossdressing. Part 3
The next step is once again a subtle progression in the direction youâre trying to go. When youâre out with your wife and sheâs buying cosmetics take an interest. Ask why she likes one brand of make up over another. Be sure to have a sincere interest.
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How to talk to your partner about crossdressing- Part 1.
The first thing to remember here is that your going into this with a plan. Youâre not just going to spring it on her, and hope for the best. Far from it. By the time the issue comes up youâre going to have laid the groundwork for this to work beautifully.
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