At this stage youâre beginning to move your partner toward acting in a specific manner with you. Sheâs been primed, sees herself as a liberal thinking and open to intimate suggestions (after all, everybody sees her that way), and she sees herself as being in control in a liberated and powerful way.
This is exactly how you want her to feel. Most women who find themselves confronted with the idea of their man wanting to wear a skirt, feel confused and powerless. Youâve set up the reverse of this, and she likes it. At this point she has no idea why she likes this feeling, but youâve created a carefully crafted scenario that serves our purposes well.
By the way, at any stage, if she turns and says, âThis is a bit weird,â you can easily shrug and just dismiss it. Likely it would be because youâve tried to rush things. Instead taking it slowly is a far better idea. It will feel better to you, and sheâll gently move a little further into the snare.
At this point itâs time for you to start moving to generally slightly more androgynous clothing. Nothing particularly startling. Just start to choose slightly looser sweaters, and tighter jeans. Ideally youâd want to be able to imagine that if you put on a hair of heels and a belt at the waist you could almost be crossdressing. Now, youâre not going to do that just yet â at least not in front of your partner â but you should be aiming at that level of clothes.
As you begin to dress in this way, start paying particular attention to what she wears. Start matching the colors, and she will subconsciously start associating your clothes and hers. The âgold starâ performance at this point would be (if your sizes were similar) if she asked you to borrow something for her to wear. For most couples thatâs unlikely to happen, as sizes are often different. Either way, thatâs where you want to be moving.
As you comment on her clothes, do so positively. âYouâve always been so good at that!â
Youâre almost ready for the final step.
You are so correct on this. If my partner did have a choice in his feminization and did this it would have definitely made me open to him starting to dress