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Accept yourself as you are – create yourself as you desire.
I was explaining to Sylvester, âLove is a mysterious and tender feeling, Sylvester. Itâs about giving, and sharing, and being sensitive to the person youâre doing it to in the back of your truck. You canât judge others because of their romantic preferences.â
âDonât try to tell me about love!â Said Sylvester.
âYou sound like an eighties song,â I said and poured us both another cup of tea.
Sylvester was bemoaning one of his recent executive decisions. Running the local auto shop is quite demanding. Especially since he expanded into retailing tires. His most recent choice of new staff was proving more challenging than he had originally thought.
âWhen I hired him to manage the tire department he seemed so excited,â he said.
âI imagine he did. And how did it come to your attention that he was a rubber fetishist and something of a celebrity in the local swinger scene?â
âLurch printed out some of his website. He left them on my desk. Donât ask me how Lurch found his site.â
âOh!â I said. âThat must have felt a bit âawkwardâ.â
Sylvester looked at me sideways.
âWell, I donât think itâs any of your business what he does in his spare time.â
I picked up one of the printed pages Sylvester had put on my kitchen table and studied it for a moment, and then added, âAnd he appears to be rather good at it. Now, if heâs happy in there surrounded by rubber then thatâs all to the good.â
Sylvester knew I was right.
âThere, there, Sylvester,â I said to my crestfallen friend. âTake a lesson from the new guy and Iâm sure youâll bounce right back.â
At last, now that Sylvester had shut up I could tell him the gossip about Bernardâs weird brother, Kevin having an affair with his wifeâs twin sister. Funny story, but thatâs not the main reason Iâm writing to you tonight.
I thought I might mention to you that, aside from my Good Gurls program ($4.99 a month) and my Premium Program ($14.99 a month) and all the other fun programs I offer, I am also pleased to be able to help my members by steering you toward gender counsellor Jules. This is specifically for people who are struggling with gender issues. You can read more about Jules here.
Have a delightful week, and stop by the site and you may find me chatting with members.
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Fiona
I was so pleased to see a delivery arrive this morning with some new and colorful socks. As I’m wearing shorter skirts now, I am loving the fact that I can mix and match with some exciting new colors and textures covering my legs.
Here are a few ideas that have got me excited recently. I’m sure that slipping these on when you dress, or even under your usual clothes is sure to add a spring to your step.
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As the new year rolls into action I have been working with Sebastian, my personal trainer, to tone and shape my body. He is a very helpful young man, I must say.
I am determined that this year I will eat more healthily and reduce my carbon footprint in 2020. Perhaps a few less flights, and a few more vegetables are in order. Donât you think it is important to enjoy a healthy amount of fresh fruit in your diet?
Last night it was a delightful surprise to be invited to a cocktail party held by a friend of Sebastianâs sister, Rainbow. While Rainbow is a certified carrot crunching yoga hippie, some of her yoga clients are quite unusual people. It was pleasant to be invited to one of their parties at a very exclusive address and I was interested to see how it would work out. After all, it can be exhausting having parties with Sylvester, Ali and Amanda, that often disintegrate into mayhem and occasionally someone being tied up and abandoned naked in a public park at 3 am. I suppose this is what you get for associating with people who need to have their back shaved periodically â and thatâs just Amanda. How nice it would be to meet some people of quality.
By the time I had got dressed and ready I must say I really did look quite spectacular, if a little overdressed. Nonetheless, itâs nice to go over the top now and then.
Sebastian and I arrived and were shown into the ornate house and met by Carina (thereâs always a Carina), Rainbowâs client. She swept up to us looking spectacular in her little black cocktail number. She carried a tray loaded down with hors d’oeuvre.
Sebastian introduced us and our hostess beamed an expensive smile.
âWould you like a clam? Or perhaps a cocktail sausage?â she asked. âOh, and which pronoun do you prefer, he, she or them?â
The tiny woman was almost vibrating with energy. I sensed sheâd been doing a few too many yoga classes. She would likely benefit from a nice cleansing turkey enema.
I looked at Carina quizzically, trying to decide whether she was joking, and to see if her choice of hors dâoevre was somehow connected with the pronouns question. At that moment Rainbow appeared, and gave her brother a hug.
âHey,â said Sebastian smiling at her. âYou lookâŠâ
Sebastian was searching for words.
Carina chimed in cheerfully, âEarthy! Thatâs what I said! Rainbow you look so very âearthyâ. I wish I was so brave,â she added.
Rainbow looked confused and replied, âBrave?â
âYes, I mean I would never have been so brave as to make my own clothes. And wear them out,â said Carina. âFiona, would you like a drink? I have a couple of special cocktails. Perhaps youâd like the carrot and Kale with a shot of vodka. Or maybe the Orange and langoustine gin. You should try them. I invented them myself.â
âWell, I am trying to eat and drink in a healthy way for the new year. Perhaps the orange and langoustine gin.â I glanced around the room at the very fashionable set of guests. The ratio of chins to people was definitely on the low side. âAnd youâd better make it a double. But do me a favor and hold the orange.â I paused a moment and then said, âand the langoustines.â
Sebastian slipped off in search of a proper drink and headed toward what looked like a bar, followed by Carina.
As she hurried off, Rainbow turned to me looking confused and said, âDid she just say my clothes are worn out? I think Iâve been insulted, but Iâm not sure.â
âOh,â I said, âYouâve been insulted. But I wouldnât worry about it. Letâs drink the silly cowâs gin and go and get some poutine at The Junction. Theyâve got a show on at 10.â
Sebastian reappeared at that moment and said that Carinaâs husband, Nigel (it had to be), had offered him the most disgusting cocktail heâd ever tasted.
âItâs one part gin, one part coca cola and a teaspoon of olive oil. He calls it an Exxon Valdez. I had it on the rocks, but it was so disgusting I spilled it into that aquarium.â
Across the room there was a very expensive looking aquarium that was looking a little the worse for having an Exxon Valdez poured into it.
Carina returned with our drinks and then went on to circulate with some of the many other guests.
âI think itâs time to bounce,â I said to Sebastian and Rainbow. Letâs go somewhere everyone knows our names.
I hope youâre getting the new year off to a wonderful start. If youâve not already singed up to my Patreon please join me at https://www.patreon.com/fionadobsonCD
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Fiona Dobson
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I am back from Mexico. If you want more details, I have three words for you; âBehind The Scenesâ. Yes, you can learn the details if youâre a member of my âBehind the Scenesâ tier on Patreon.
So, with my freshly tanned shoulders wrapped up and standing beneath an umbrella held by Sylvester in one of his ham sized paws, you find me standing beside something thatâs appeared in my back garden.
âBut what is it,â I said to Ali, my gardener.
âYour Christmas present, and itâs beautiful,â he replied. âItâs a sundial. My people have been using sundials to tell the time for 3000 years.â
âYour people?â I said.
âGardeners?â asked Sylvester, looking confused.
âThose of us who come from the middle east,â replied Ali. âPersians, Syrians. Us lot.â
I sometimes feel that Aliâs skills are wasted. He used to be a botany professor at Damascus University. And now he tends my garden. He seems happy though. Talking to Sylvester is a little like petting a monkey, for Ali.
âThank you, Ali,â I said. âThatâs a very kind thought.â
I looked skyward and I could see Ali was reading my mind. Iâve just got back from a land of apparently endless sunshine, but the sky over Vancouver between the months of October to April resembles nothing so much as being inside Tupperware.
âI donât think Iâm getting rid of the kitchen clock, at least not before spring,â I said. âBut it is beautiful. Youâre very kind.â
âThree thousand years, youâve been using these?â said Sylvester.
âWe should probably ask Amanda how it works,â I said. âShe probably remembers the product launch party.â
At this Sylvester gave me a sour look.
Ali looked at the cloud covered sky and then examined the numbers around itâs base, and then said âI think it was 2.30, in SeptemberâŠâ
Iâm sure that when the sun comes out it will be a lovely centre piece to the East garden. Ali is so thoughtful. And Iâm not one to look a gift camel in the mouth.
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Fiona
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I awoke this morning to a terrific banging. Now, I know what youâre thinking, but it wasnât like that at all.
I pulled on a lovely apricot silk gown, and fluffy slippers, and hurried down to the front door, where I was confronted by Sylvester and Sebastian chatting away, framed by snow in the doorway.
âI had a huge curry, last night,â said Sylvester, âand I woke up to find weâd had a terrific dump!â
âGood morning, Sylvester,â I said as the two of them stood on my snowy doorstep. âI assume youâre talking about this heavy snowfall.â
âItâs about 9 inches and I couldnât get up the drive at all.â
âCan we use your rear entrance, Fiona?â said Sebastian. If I had a nickel for everytimeâŠ
âWhy donât you boys slip around the back of the house. Aliâs very kindly cleared the lane. You should be able to park there without difficulty,â I said.
And with that the two boys disappeared and left me to put on the hot chocolate, and warm some croissants. My friends are joining me for breakfast today as weâre working on some new ideas for the premium program. If youâre a member of this wonderful program youâll know how much fun we have with it. If youâre not, then think about jumping in!
Have a lovely day.
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Fiona
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I’ve just posted a very personal story about my Christmas to my special tier called “Behind the scenes with Fiona”, on Patreon. This is a special tier for those wanting my most personal thoughts and insights.
If you’d like to enjoy “Behind the scenes – The Christmas Gift.” you can do so HERE.
Become a Patron!Iâve popped over to Fionaâs place to give her my diary entry. As luck would have it sheâs having a little soiree and the liquor cabinet is unusually accessible. Iâve just dropped in to give Fiona this message.
So, as you may have guessed I am back from visiting St. Bernedetteâs School For Gurls. You know, I do love to travel to South Africa, and life in the Natal foothills is really quite lovely. Itâs a little like going back in time.
The post is still delivered by the nice young postman, and I often ride into the nearby town of Jabulani on horseback, along with Jack the handyman at the school. Jabulani is about five miles from the school, and a lovely ride in the Natal morning sunshine. The school has a small stable of a dozen horses. Every morning Jack and I would get some exercise taking one or two of the gurls and riding to town to bring back the fresh milk.
Those sultry mornings, with a little mist in the distance, climbing on the back of a well trained pony, and setting out across the veldt, it was quite beautiful. The gurls laughing and chasing along with me, Little Michaela, her ginger hair flowing behind her as we fly across the ground in the morning sun. Quite serene. And Jack the handyman trying to keep pace. Heâs a little older, of course and we have to wait for him from time to time.
Once in the nearby village weâd put a few cartons of milk in our packs from the store, and then race back to the school stables. And of course finally weâd help Jack off his horse.
It all seems a million miles away from the cooler weather I have come back to. And Canada is really much more modern and genteel. Things in South Africa seem so much more, I suppose the word is âprimalâ. Everything is more literal and immediate. So, when one of the maids came to me and said they didnât know what to do about the schools pet dog, âCesarâ chasing after the postman every morning I pointed out that the best way to deal with that would obviously be to neuter him.
Well, as I explained to the poor man later, I had been referring to the dog when I said, âneuter himâ. These things happen though. Best to move forward and not get bogged down in the details, though I do have some sympathy for the poor fellow.
How lovely it is to be back, though. My nieces and nephews have offered to help me get my Christmas tree up, and Iâm looking forward to standing on a chair as my nephew Gerald looks up at me as I place a fairy on the top of the Christmas tree. How well dressed this tree really is. I suppose I should now turn my attentions to young Gerald.
How very kind he is to help me get it up. Iâm sure, given the opportunity, youâd do the same.
But now I have to give this account to Max, who is going to post it online for me. Heâs so much better at technology than I am. I shall go and sit on his knee and simper, it usually works with him, the little puppy! Iâll just stop off and refill my coffee cup with Baileyâs.
Merry Christmas from Huckleberry Close.
Youâre favorite Auntie,
Auntie Kittie
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Love it or hate it, we all use social media to some degree. It also triggers many of us with anxiety and pushes our buttons. Ever on the lookout for my gurls I am including this for those who need a little help.
I know not everyone is going to be into this, so I will bury it behind a “Read more…” in a moment. However, if you’re looking for a happier social media place than the dry rotting carcass of Twitter, I would encourage you to use Mastodon. It’s easier than you think.
Continue reading “A crossdresser’s guide to Mastodon.”Now, I know what you’re thinking. What can you buy the fascist pig in your life this year for Christmas?
Just the other day one of my members reached out to me and asked, “Fiona, what am I to do? I have to go back home to see the family for Christmas and it’s going to be horrible. I’m dreading it!”
I assured them that I do understand. As you know, I am very empathetic. It did make me wonder what a suitable gift for the aging Karen in your life may be.
“I have the perfect gift for you,” I replied. “Just buy them this delightful year planner. Buy the time they start using it you’ll be long gone, and as they’re entering their weekly klan meetings in it you can feel safe in the knowlege that they probably will be in blissful ignorance of the meaning of the color scheme, and some of the unusual holidays mentioned within it. You can use the link below to get it.
And what a thoughtful gift it is. After all, who wants one of their Klan meetings to clash with International Transgender Day of Visibility (TDOV) – March 31st.
On a more serious note, I do realise this is not the easiest time of year for many of our members. My Elite Whatsapp Group can be very supportive, as well as joining my Premium Program, breathing some sanity into the holiday season, if for some unfathomable reason you’re not already a member. I will also be online frequently in the coming days. Drop in to Http://FionaDobson.com and I will try be as supportive as possible. Just look for the chat window that comes up if I am online.
Have a lovely day,
Fiona
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Part 59. Find Part 1 here â Chapter list here â
Iâve never been afraid of hard physical labor. I like to work out in the gym, and of course I have always done yoga. Working up a bit of sweat and feeling it run between my breasts as I work on an elliptical is not something I am unfamiliar with.
Working in the stables was no hardship. 30 and I made a good team, and she had a little radio we could listen to as we worked. The morning flew by. And by the time we broke for lunch I felt quite a glow from the exertion.
As I was washing some vegetables this morning after my weekly shop at the organic vegetable store my phone rang, and who should it be but Sebastian, my personal trainer.
âSebastian,â I said answering the call. âHow lovely to hear from you. Iâm just washing my organic ethically sourced zuchinis.â
This seemed to stop him in his tracks, but he quickly recovered himself.
âFiona,â he said, clearly agitated, âwhat on earth have you been saying to Rainbow?”
You’ll remember that Rainbow is Sebastian’s flakey kombucha drinking yoga teacher sister.
âI chatted with her just yesterday,â I said. âWe had a lovely conversation on that thing Max installed on my phone. Snatchchat, I think itâs called.â
âBut what did you say to her,â he persisted.
âOh, we talked about all sorts of things,â I replied. âThat Mr. Willow down the road. He got caught cheating on his wife with her twin sister. Funny story actually.â
Before I could go on Sebastian cut in, âDid you give her some career advice?â
âOh, I wouldnât give her career advice,â I said. âNot after the incident at the vets place.â –
Sebastian, sounded quite exasperated.
âWhat on earthâs the matter?â I asked.
Sounding very puzzled, he replied, âI just donât understand it. Sheâs going on about you telling her that she should be a therapist.â
âWhat, Rainbow?â I replied, almost swallowing my tongue in surprise.
âYeah, thatâs what I thought.â
Suddenly a thought came to my mind. It came with the crushing inevitability of a garbage truck backing purposefully over a childâs unseen tricycle left out in the lane.
âOh, wait,â I said. âI seem to remember saying to her that she should âseeâ a therapist. Yes, that was it. Somewhere after the second bottle of Cab Sauvignon. Did you know her last therapist took his own life? Terrible!â
âOh God,â said Sebastian. âShe thinks you said she should âbeâ a therapist. And now sheâs all excited about getting trained.â
âIt would be an unusual choice for a person like Rainbow,â I said. âVery unusual.â
You can read Rainbowâs profile here.
I shall watch her development with the sense of foreboding it deserves.
Have a lovely week,
Fiona
PS. Enjoy some Contrapoints below.
Lenni, a cis female member of our Whatsapp Group posted this to the group and it came to my attention. It’s a beautiful short movie, poignant especially at this time. Please watch and share.
At a time when youth need all the support they can find, this hits the target beautifully. Our Whatsapp group is here to support all comers. Lenni and her wife have been LGBTQ activist for the last 25 years. It’s hardly suprising that such a supportive message should emanate from her.
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Become a Patron!The Crossdresserâs Guide To Marital Bliss is a series of episodes taking a hilarious look at how one crossdresser brought his wife to a place of understanding and acceptance. Itâs also instructive and full of good advice to those of us who wish to introduce our dressing to the principal relationship in our life. I hope you enjoy it. Get Part 1 here. Fiona.
Sitting in the garden, just by where Ali had completed a rather unusual example of topiary depicting Cleopatraâs Needle and two of the Elgin Marbles, not to scale, I poured my wife a glass of wine.
âDarling,â I said. âhave you ever had a boyfriend who liked to crossdress?â
âWell, I really donât know,â she replied nonchalantly. âWhat they get up to in their spare time is a mystery to me.â
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